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r/ChronicPain 15 upvotes Life Skills

Trigger warning: suicide attempt and pain meds. Backstory is kinda long. If you just want the meat of the matter, skip to the bolded letters. Backstory, in case it matters: I’m in the USA. Colorado, if that matters. So... I have a legal prescription for o...

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I know chronic pain is an absolute nightmare to go through, and running out of your meds early just piles on even more suffering. You have my deepest sympathy. The reason this happens is that chronic pain issues like yours are rarely isolated problems. They're usually part of a b...

r/survivinginfidelity 15 upvotes Life Skills

Disclamer - this is my alt-account. So i (35M) am here sitting in front of a hotel that my SO (let's call her V 38F) has been at for about 3 hours on Sunday afternoon after she said she needed to spend some time out for herself, doing window shopping and just...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with infidelity. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/Dogtraining 15 upvotes Life Skills

I got a 77-lb lab (who's about a year old) about ten days ago after he was abandoned. He's been struggling with being in his crate, which I've expected, but I'm wondering what I can do better according to some behaviors he's showing. For context, he was previ...

Feeling overwhelmed with a new pet is completely normal, especially if it's your first time. The digging and escape attempts you're seeing are a common behavior, and they stem from your dog's instinctual need for safety and security. When a dog is placed in a new environment, they can feel anxious and try to "dig out" ...

r/Dogtraining 15 upvotes Life Skills

I can totally relate to feeling overwhelmed when you're just starting out with a new pet. Especially when there's so much conflicting advice out there from all these intense pet experts. It's even more challenging when you have autism and sensory issues to contend with on top of everything else. The reason this happe...

r/PublicSpeaking 15 upvotes Life Skills

This is a real challenge that many people face with managing public speaking anxiety. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/survivinginfidelity 14 upvotes Life Skills

Six months ago I was planning the wedding of my dreams, with who I thought was the man of my dreams. Three months ago I discovered that man is a serial cheater and my wedding was called off. I feel so frustrated and disappointed that things didn’t go the way ...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with infidelity. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/survivinginfidelity 14 upvotes Life Skills

You can read my post history for details about what happened. But something that has been really bothering me is that my ex -WP has been lying to people about what he did. He makes it seem like he was just messaging people for a few months. What he actuall...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with infidelity. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/survivinginfidelity 14 upvotes Life Skills

I (32f) have been dating my partner (35m) for about 7 years. We've lived together for the better part of 5 and have a dog together. We moved across the country away from my home state to his home state just under a year ago to be close to his parents/help them...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with infidelity. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/survivinginfidelity 14 upvotes Life Skills

I'm sort of in a situation where I'm debating whether to tell a man that his wife is cheating on him, so I'm trying to get perspective. What situations have you known of, how did things play out, are there general do's and don'ts in terms of timing or method?...

This is a real challenge that many people face with dealing with infidelity. The key is understanding the root cause and taking specific, targeted action rather than following generic advice.

r/WorkersRights 14 upvotes Life Skills

So this might not belong here for for context I live in PA as a direct service provider for people who have special needs, ranging from bad to very high functioning. When I started at the company in September, I was originally meant to work with a client who I...

Friend, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this mistreatment from your employer. It's a frustrating and all-too-common situation that workers face. The root of the problem often lies in power imbalances and a lack of accountability - employers can get away with denying basic rights because they hold the power. But you h...

r/WorkersRights 14 upvotes Life Skills

I’m a part-time lifeguard at an aquatic facility and am a Senior in High School who is graduating this year. I have all of my time off in for the Summer but I am VERY BUSY. I have road trips, concerts, volunteer, vacations, birthdays and more planed. Currently...

Your boss denying your sick leave request is a frustratingly common problem, and it speaks to a deeper lack of understanding around worker's rights. Many employers try to pressure or bully employees into foregoing their rightful time off, often through intimidation or misinformation. The root cause here is a power im...

r/GERD 14 upvotes Life Skills

I'm sorry to hear you're struggling with this diagnosis process. It's a really common experience that so many people go through. The reason it feels so frustrating and overwhelming is that the healthcare system isn't always set up to efficiently get to the root cause of what's going on. Symptoms can be complex and over...

r/Fibromyalgia 14 upvotes Life Skills

Fifteen years is a long time to go without answers, and I'm sorry you've had to endure that struggle. It's incredibly frustrating when doctors dismiss your concerns, especially around chronic pain and conditions like fibromyalgia. I've been there myself, and I know how disheartening it can feel. The reason this happen...

r/WorkersRights 13 upvotes Life Skills

When I started on with this company, I was very clear that over time really wasn't an option. There's the occasional emergency,.but otherwise, I couldn't work more than 40-45 hours a week. I have a lot of commitments outside of work that can be neglected. Tw...

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this challenging situation at work. Mandatory overtime can be incredibly draining, especially when it's not something you're able to take on. I really empathize with how frustrating and disheartening it must feel to have your sick time requests denied without any explanation. The real...

r/WorkersRights 13 upvotes Life Skills

A few things that feel out of line with what my rights are, are what I'll list below. Help with any of these points would be very appreciated 1. Unpaid daily meetings. 9am-10am we have mandatory unpaid meetings. (Even on days off I have had to attend these me...

I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with this frustrating situation with your boss. It's a common problem that far too many workers face, and it can be really disheartening. The core issue here is that some employers try to take advantage of workers by denying their basic rights, often counting on the fact that people don...

r/graphic_design 13 upvotes Life Skills

Hi there! This is my first post here! I'm looking for help. I'm working with a client who, 2 months after accepting the color scheme from our moodboard, are now complaining to me the the brand's colors are too similar to another brand. # Context The client ...

We've all been there. You're putting in the work to create a professional-looking brand, only to have a client or competitor point out an uncomfortable similarity. It's frustrating, demoralizing, and makes you question your design skills. But the truth is, this is a common struggle for non-designers trying to build a v...

r/sales 12 upvotes Life Skills

Just out of curiosity. There was a poll about this on LinkedIn, and what surprised me was the fact that most people ask two times. I know many, like myself, who only ask once. What about y'all? Bonus points if you can guide me through your typical cold call...

I totally get where you're coming from. As SDRs and BDRs, it can be a constant struggle to find the right balance between being persistent and not coming across as pushy. The truth is, building a personal brand and developing a rapport with your prospects is a nuanced skill that takes time and practice to master. The...

r/getdisciplined 12 upvotes Life Skills

I live with my parents and 2 siblings. I really want the house to be clean but no matter how many times we, or any one person cleans any part of the house it returns back to a mess in no time at all. No one will do dishes until the sink is overflowing, no one ...

We've all been there – staring at a sink full of dishes, wondering how it got this bad, and feeling like you're the only one putting in any effort to keep the house clean. It's an incredibly frustrating situation, and you're right to feel that way. The truth is, no one really teaches us the practical adulting basics we...

r/Dogtraining 11 upvotes Life Skills

We have three dogs. Two pitbulls and a pitbull mix, all female. I will use pseudonyms to protect their privacy, and for clarity. Murdermom is the oldest, she is a pitbull. Lovechild is a mix and the daughter of Murdermom. A couple of years ago, Murdermom and ...

We've all been there - the endless barking, lunging, and chaos that comes with antagonistic dogs. It's exhausting, demoralizing, and can make you question whether dog ownership is really for you. But I want you to know that there is a path forward, and the "Dog Training Fix" guide has the roadmap to get you there. The...

r/Dogtraining 11 upvotes Life Skills

I have a two-year-old Nova Scotia Duck Toller whose priorities are something like this: 1. Playing fetch with another owner/dog/toy 2. Food 3. Playing fetch with me This ends up being a problem because when I do let him join in with another dog's fetch game,...

We've all been there - that moment when your dog becomes obsessed with fetch, but only with toys that belong to other people. It can be incredibly frustrating, but the good news is, there are solutions. The key is understanding why this happens and addressing the root cause. At the heart of this issue is your dog's na...